Runaway from folks with excuses!! Run

I remember writing about how and why some folks are just happy being mediocre. A year later I definitely stand by that post.

As I was getting ready for my Vision Board Workshop in Johannesburg this past week I started to receive cancellations from a lot of ladies and interesting enough some them I have come to expect this from. The list of excuses was endless.

Excuses are a comfort space. I realized a long time ago when you want to do something you just do it. That’s just how it is.

Many of us enable this behaviour from our friends and family because we fear being honest with them. We feel guilty for letting them we choose better and therefore we are walking away. Some folks love excuses and with time master the art of excuses. Instead of improving they get better at it.

Self love requires us to be honest with ourselves and from that point being strong enough to be comfortable around others in our truth. If you like having hard working friends, rich friends , successful friends then don’t apologise for it. Make no compromises and walk away from folks who just love excuses.

Run for dear life when you see or experience such people. RUN!! What were your favourite excuses that you used to love making? How did you move from the victim mindset or excuses mindset to being accountable?