WHAT ABOUT THE “IT BOY”?
- Loraine Sibanda
- Sep 19, 2012
- 2 min read

So Dineo, Boity,Bonang have been called the “IT GIRL”. I am not sure if i second the choices but for today i would like to focus on the “IT BOY”. Right at the top of my head i know i would love to talk about Idris Elba,Will Smith,Chris Brown, or whoever tickles my fancy,but i don’t know them so they can’t be my kind of “IT BOY'” . You and i know this man. He should surely be on the cover of Destiny Magazine or Realmanville a place where our man are honoured and celebrated. He could be your brother, father or partner.The kind of man i am talking about is the kind of man you and i are sharing a journey with. The kind of “IT BOY” not known to many but because of his works he should be. The average man should not be on the cover of a magazine to be the man on everyone’s tongue. Strength, honour, humility and kindness, are traits that will always be in fashion in a man and should be celebrated everyday.
Mine was once a dream and now he is reality. Let’s talk about what matters first,he’s character. He is a man of God. He is a protector of those dear to him. He is a family man and i love that. Some women don’t like man who are often cIose to their family.They often feel that they have “competition”. I on the other hand consider it a blessing.Through a family foundation like that i inherit more love and support. He is kind more than he knows. He is super intelligent and the fact that he deals with numbers makes him more appealing..lol. He is DAMN GORGEOUS.He should thank his dear parents for those genes. Does he mess up? Of course he does.I love that he acknowledges it and makes amends. Not all man can do that. That is my “IT BOY”.Our fathers and brothers deserve a well done hug as often as possible.It’s better we overdo it than not do it all. Unlike us , men don’t cry out for compliments and hugs but they LOVE getting their egos stroked. Why not????
Who’s your “IT BOY”??? or “IT GIRL”…and please don’t give me a name of a Celeb. I will scream. I want to hear about a woman/man out there who could surely use a pat on the back…




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